| So let's say there is a guy you are attracted to | | | | seems to get really nervous. His hands go in his |
| whom you see all the time. When you see him, he's | | | | pockets. He might rock back and forth a little bit. |
| always out with his friends, laughing and just having a | | | | So what do you do in this situation? You've got to |
| great time with his buddies. Every time you try to | | | | bring it out of him a little bit more. |
| talk to him, though, he gets all nervous. | | | | For one thing, you can always ask him "Do I make |
| You've got to understand something about this guy. | | | | you nervous?" You can confront him right away if |
| You think this guy is so cool, calm, collected and | | | | you feel like taking the direct approach. |
| confident. The truth is that if he's nervous around | | | | You can also just be really calming and ask him |
| you, then he's interested in you. | | | | questions about things. When you're in a conversation |
| Just look at his personality. That's something that I | | | | with him, maybe go a little deeper and start asking |
| always tell women. | | | | him more questions about what he's saying. Get him |
| A lot of times when a woman is attracted to a guy | | | | to relax a little bit. You could laugh at one of his |
| and he acts like this, i.e., confident and friendly with | | | | jokes. |
| his friends but nervous around her, she interprets this | | | | The fact is that life is about energy, and whatever |
| seemingly stark change in his behavior as an indication | | | | energy someone brings into a dynamic can affect |
| that "This guy isn't interested in me." She will | | | | the energy of the others. So when this guy is |
| interpret his nervousness as deliberate unfriendliness | | | | nervous, you become nervous and then the two of |
| toward her. | | | | you will become nervous together. |
| In reality, this guy IS interested in you precisely | | | | So if you like this guy or you think you might like this |
| because he is not acting like himself . Watch what | | | | guy, it may be up to you to bring a calming energy |
| this guy does and think about it for a second. | | | | into your conversation to draw out his calmer side. |
| The minute he stops talking to you, he goes back to | | | | Life is a two-way street ladies. It really is. |
| talking to his friends and he immediately becomes the | | | | Once again, too many women sit back and wait for |
| confident guy again. Then you see him talking to a | | | | that guy to come over to them. They wait wait for |
| woman to whom he's not attracted, and he | | | | that guy to be George Clooney or Brad Pitt. |
| becomes that confident guy again. When he's talking | | | | Sometimes the reality is that you've just got to pull it |
| to the waitress, he's the confident guy. | | | | out of them. It's just the way things are. |
| The minute he starts talking to you, however, he | | | | |