| There are millions of guys in the world who are | | | | always changing, always unpredictable, and women |
| currently looking for a woman's companion. | | | | feel that they are on an emotional exciting |
| Even though each of these guys has a completely | | | | rollercoaster with these guys (sometimes these guys |
| different character and lifestyle, they do similar in | | | | make them laugh, sometimes cry, sometimes |
| two distinct features. | | | | wonder, etc...). |
| First of all, as I mentioned, they are all looking for a | | | | Both groups didn't come to their way of operating in |
| female companion, and second of all they all belong | | | | the world due to keen intelligence, but rather due to |
| to one of the following groups: | | | | false beliefs which manifest in them living an illusionary |
| The Men, the Jerks, or the Nice Guys. | | | | painful lifestyle. |
| What differentiate the groups are the member's | | | | The "nice guys" group believes that they need |
| reasons for reaching their desired goal (getting a | | | | approval in order to feel validated, and the "jerks" |
| woman). | | | | group believes that they are so perfect that they |
| The "nice guys" group, which is the most populated | | | | can treat people badly, and get away with it. |
| group of the three, is consisted of guys who desire a | | | | Women, like most men in some way, want to live a |
| woman only for the sake of the emotional prize they | | | | life of perpetual fun, thrill, pleasure, and joy. This kind |
| may derive from the notion of being with a woman. | | | | of lifestyle, when we are talking about relationship, is |
| Due to society's brainwashing these guys were led to | | | | only possible if a woman finds a guy who can stir |
| believe that they are not quite sufficient in their | | | | these emotions in her. |
| current state, and this feeling of insufficiency creates | | | | The people from the "nice group" cannot stimulate |
| in them a feeling of lack. | | | | these kinds of emotions in a woman, because they |
| This feeling of lack creates the inevitable desire to fill | | | | constantly avoid any kind of confrontation which may |
| that lack. | | | | result in them being rejected. |
| And again due to society's brainwashing these guys | | | | (Yet, they keep experiencing a lifetime of pain by |
| were led to believe that one major way to fill that | | | | women who find them boring, and generally not fun |
| lack is through the "possession" of a woman. | | | | to be with). |
| This is why the guys in the "Nice Guys" group buy | | | | Then we come to the last group which is the "Men |
| gifts to women, and invite them to expensive | | | | Group". People in the "Men Group" come from insight |
| dinners. They do these gestures because they feel | | | | and realization instead of tendency and false beliefs. |
| that they don't have what it takes to get the | | | | They also want to engage in a relationship with their |
| woman they want, and they have to "bribe" women | | | | desired woman, yet they are not like the "nice guys" |
| in order to get what they want. | | | | group which craves it out of necessity, and they are |
| The second group is the "Jerks Group". This group is | | | | not like the "Jerks" group which treats women badly |
| the opposite extreme of the first group in many | | | | in order to feel better about themselves. |
| ways. Members in this group believe that they are | | | | The "Men Group" sees the futility of using another |
| the best prize possible. | | | | person to fulfill one's unfulfilled cravings, and |
| They are very self-centered, very egoistic, and care | | | | understand that real healthy lifestyle can only come |
| less for how other people regard their actions. Yet, | | | | when one feels comfortable within one's skin. |
| these negative traits are also what make them | | | | The "Men Group" understands that for genuine |
| desirable to a lot of women (usually women with | | | | change to come about one needs not to aspire to fill |
| very low self esteem). | | | | his emptiness with outward sensations, but rather to |
| Women don't find them boring because they are | | | | find the cause for his inward emptiness. |